How to Become More in Touch with Yourself

The world in which we live today makes it easy for us to connect and interact with one another. With social media, text, and email, it is easier than ever to communicate and build relationships. While this emphasis on connecting with others is fantastic, we tend to forget to connect with ourselves. We need to establish a relationship with ourselves as much as we do with the people around us. Being comfortable and content in our own skins can have a positive effect on our lives, so here is a short guide to help you on your journey to becoming more in touch with yourself.

Choose to be happy
Happiness is a choice and responsibility that lies in our own hands. Many of us have been brought up to believe that our happiness depends on someone else, but that is not the case at all. Instead of being down when things do not go your way, be proactive and take charge of the situation. Fill your life with hobbies, people, and activities that give you joy. Get rid of the negative influences. See the silver lining in everything, and find a positive way of looking at life. You may not be able to control or understand the bad things that happen, and it is fine to feel sad from time to time, but choosing happiness can make bad situations less debilitating and your life infinitely better. Take it from someone whose life took a huge turn for the better once she chose happiness: happiness is a choice that only you can make for yourself.

Visualize what you want
There are things that we want in life such as better skin, a promotion, or a holiday. Be honest with yourself, and write down the things that you want, no matter how absurd it may sound. It could be a goal, an item, or a change that you want to make to your life. This honesty with yourself will give you the focus you need to strive towards attaining that goal, item, or change. Knowing what you want can also help you create a plan of action. However, try not to overwhelm yourself by cramming too many things on your list at once. Prioritize, then tackle one item at a time. If you find it difficult to determine what exactly it is that you want in life, consider a chat with a counselor or a free tarot reading.

Go easy on yourself
It is inevitable that we will all make mistakes. We are only human, after all. The important thing is to learn from those mistakes. Being hard on yourself for slipping up is just a waste of energy that will not improve your situation or solve anything. It will only make you feel bad about yourself and put you off of trying again in the future. Remember: there is always more than one way to go about doing something, and you are entitled to changing your mind regarding your course of action. If you try something that does not work out, accept it and move on to the next alternative. When all is said and done, at least you know that you gave it your all. Also, never compare yourself to others. We are all different in many ways and should all celebrate our own uniqueness. The thing that you dislike most about yourself could very well be the thing that someone else likes most about you, so instead of focusing on the negatives, look for what you do like and enhance them.

This guide will hopefully help you to create a healthy relationship with yourself. With Valentine's Day coming up, instead of worrying about how you can please someone else or make someone else happy, you should choose happiness and make you your top priority.

How do you show yourself love?

1 comment:

  1. Going easy on yourself is something I've been focusing on a lot lately! I tend to really overload myself and it is no good for my physical or mental health. Setting realistic goals and staying positive really helps!